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The Act of Loving

My husband is adopted.  How he connects, attaches and loves is very different from me. My husband is particularly good at self-sabotage.  His unintended, but often realized, survival philosophy has been “if I push you away it will hurt less than if you push me away.”  Except, it doesn’t work that way and the hurting,… Continue reading The Act of Loving

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The fun: EIA, Shopping Extravaganza

When my husband first started his Daddy blog I was thrilled at the potential that he would receive invitations to attend great community events, try kid targeted products, and expand his freelance network.  I had hoped this would help supplement our income, make the blog more viable over time, and introduce our Bean to some wicked… Continue reading The fun: EIA, Shopping Extravaganza

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I haven’t written much this year. I’ve been, for the most part, too busy trying to keep it together, at least on the surface.  Between work, vomiting, a toddler, and CFS/FMS my time has been spoken for. Baby number two will soon arrive. My mother started making herself at home in our tiny spare bedroom;… Continue reading Teaser